Accountability – is it Biblical?

Many of us are quick to quote Matthew 7:1 when someone criticizes us.“Do not judge, or you too will be judged,” we quote, then jump to Matthew 7:3, “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?”

The implication is that we are somehow banned from rebuking someone unless we are perfect – sort of like John 8:7, when Jesus tells those who would stone a prostitute, “If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”

Instead, perhaps we are encouraged, even commanded, to hold fellow Christians to the same standard that we would wish to be held to. In that light, let’s look at Matthew 7:2 – in between the more popular verses: “For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

Why do we tend to read that as a negative? Don’t we want to be living up to God’s standard? Don’t we want someone to point out our flaws so we may correct them?

I discussed this point with some Christian friends recently and we joked about the “normal” way people respond to criticism.

I poked one brother in the arm and said, “You need to read your Bible every day!”

He gave me a mock glare and said, “Huh, you’re a fine one to talk. When was the last time you did any intercessory prayer?”

Another brother chimed in: “I didn’t see either one of you helping out at the orphanage last Wednesday. So why should I listen to you?”

Really, here is how the exchange should go:

“You need to read the Bible every day. I started doing it last month and I can’t tell you how much closer I feel to God.”

“Hmm. You know you are probably right. I need to find the time for that. And I’d strongly recommend you take some time and do more intercessory prayer.”

“Hey you guys, while we’re at it, faith without works is dead! Why don’t we all go volunteer at the orphanage next week.”

This may sound a little strange, but be patient while I march out some scripture to back me up:

Do not hate your brother in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you will not share in his guilt. (Leviticus 1 9:17)

Instruct a wise man and he will be wiser still; teach a righteous man and he will add to his learning. (Proverbs 9:9)

Like an earring of gold or an ornament of fine gold is a wise man’s rebuke to a listening ear. (Proverbs 25:12)

Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage — with great patience and careful instruction. For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. (2 Timothy 4:2-3)

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. (2 Timothy 3:16-17)

And what about John 8:7?

Perhaps that teaching is intended to deal only with unconstructive criticism. These people were about to kill the prostitute, not inform her of the error of her ways.

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2 Comments

  1. Wow. Rich stuff here, chief! A big echo to a sermons series I just listened to by Andy Stanley (Charles’ son) at North Point in Atlanta, GA. Convicting, good, challenging. To truly care means to get in the mud and the muck and mire with our brother and sister and address the sin. To stand up on the bank and criticize/correct from there would be as the men who were ready to stone the adulterous woman in the Bible. I want/need friends who want to get dirty and personal. Don’t we all? I want Christian brothers and sisters who love me too much to stay the way I am. Thanks for sharing this!

  2. I am going to try to listen to that series tomorrow. It can be found at http://www.northpoint.org/messages.


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